Let there be peace

Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.  Let there be peace on earth, the peace that was meant to be...

I was reminded of that song this evening as I meditate on a situation that has finally taken it's toll.  I am an individual that strives to have peace.  All my life I have listened to and settled conflicts.  My degree is in conflict resolution, I am a mediator where I am trained to use specific skills in an effort to bring peace to individuals and families. 

Today, I feel like I have lost the battle.  I am saddened at the conflict in the homes of many today.  So many issues but the prominent one is personal.  It is my belief that every personal conflict results from a deep rooted issue. 

Either something has been left unsettled, a comment was made, gossip, someone's pride was injured, someone lied about something, a fight for control or significance, or something to that effect. There is no greater grievance than conflict involving families.  Mothers, fathers, in-laws, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, cousins, and grandparents. 

There are many good books on the market that address conflict resolution and peace.  However, when a family member is involved in conflict, they don't want to have to read a book for an answer.  God's Word however, is a book you can read daily for direction. 

For the past two weeks, I have dealt with an issue that has pierced my heart.  Without elaborating, I stood firm on my position of peace.  I made every effort to convince family members that peace was possible if we all focused on the Word of God and not on our self centeredness. 

I disputed the ideas of anger and animosity and plead for peace.  I quoted scripture, led prayers, offered direction...in the end, there was no peace and I felt defeated. 

God was quick to reassure me that I had done what He had called me to do in offering peace.  I was comforted in reading:

Therefore as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another.  Forgive as the Lord forgave you.  And over all these virtues, put on love that binds them all together in perfect unity.  Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body, you were called to peace.  Colossians 3:12-15

I can not control others and I can not convince others but I can be an example.  I can "let the peace of Christ rule in my heart" and as such I can live out the song:  Let there be peace on earth...and let it begin with me. 

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.  Romans 12:18